Masturbation is one of those tricky things that people do mostly on their own. Well… yeah, that would be the definition of masturbation huh? Anyway, you have probably read or maybe experienced the guided masturbation calls we offer here at LDW/Enchantrix. It’s pretty amazing to think there are new ways to do something that, let’s face it, you have been doing since you were 12.
So the question remains… which is better mutual or self masturbation? On one end we have the age old question - is masturbation ever really by yourself? This tinges of philosophy but I won’t go waxing on that. I just mean, we often use props to help us along. For girls, there are many vibrator tips we have either read or heard about from our friends. Not to mention that there are just a massive amount of masturbation toys out there.
So the boys have fleshlight… lube… panties. Girls have vibrators and other stuff.
If you are touching yourself and using a toy – is it still self masturbation? Okay – I said I wasn’t going there… leave it in the comments section if you want 
My round about destination is (as it should be) phone sex.
Can you have self masturbation on the phone? Doesn’t the simple fact that you are listening to a sexy voice like mine disqualify the idea of “self”?
And what about the fact that 80% of the time I am on a call I am pleasuring myself too. If I don’t mention it – is it any less mutual masturbation?
Okay boys. Bottom line.. I should have thought this through a little bit more before posting but, come on… what do you think?
Maybe the bottom line is this – it doesn’t matter what you call it. Whatever makes you feel the best, whatever scratches that itch, is the way to go. So who cares if you are indulging with a fleshlight or a 40 minute phone sex call? Just as long as you are getting your rocks off?
And for those of you that are worried about touching yourself all alone is something bad – consider this: At any one time millions of people are masturbating.
Well, like many things this post didn’t exactly go the way I had planned. Yet, like many of you I am a free spirit. Enjoy this day, enjoy your play and come back tomorrow for more musings from me, Empress Holly
Kisses,
Holly
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