What is teasing and orgasm denial?
Great question! Unfortunately many people miss out on the joy of orgasm tease and denial. This is because we get so caught up on shooting our loads, that we forget to enjoy the journey. And from my perspective, prolonging orgasm or orgasm denial training is all about enjoying the journey. And it will be different with each Mistress, as well as different from day to day. You change every day and so does your teasing Mistress. I, for example am a sensually teasing domina… not a strict domme. This means that I am much more likely to coo and coax you lovingly than to make you cry, lol. Yet, no matter who you do it with – a proper session of teasing and orgasm denial should include a little pain and a lot of lube! Getting yourself to the edge time and time again. Each plateau one iota closer to climax than the last.
Do I have to have ruined orgasms?
For many people, a prolonged teasing session equals a ruined orgasm. And though I have been known to inflict this on my puppets in the past it isn’t my “go to” strategy. I would much rather make you work hard and then *thoroughly* enjoy your climax. That might just be the sweet sensual side of me but, it seems to be popular enough! In fact, my preferred method of ruined orgasm is to allow you the joy of climax but then instruct you to keep stroking well after you are “done.” This equates pain with pleasure and typically results in a very devoted puppet.
How do I start orgasm denial training?
Obviously, since I am a phone sex artist I am going to propose you call me for orgasm denial training. However, it is something you can try on your own. Go to teasemania.com or flip through my free femdom audios and try to contain yourself. If you need more of a challenge check out our group blogs www.mayicum.com or www.teasemafia.com. Or you can simply watch porn at home, each time trying to keep yourself from exploding a little longer than the last.
And once you are ready for the “big leagues” give us a call! Teasing and orgasm denial is a very common call around here and I am more than happy to show you the ropes! Just remember it is about the journey, not the destination. Imagine your last orgasm. Now imagine if it lasted 10x longer. Imagine that shaking in your bones…that thrill in your heart… with proper orgasm denial training you will make self masturbation a sport to be reckoned with! lol
Kisses,
Holly
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