Welcome to your first assignment of the sissy school year! Make sure you read the previous lesson first and listen to the audio. This one is an easy one and there are two options. Going to go over how to talk like a lady. If you are more secretive about your sissy ways then you will want to partake in the first options. If you have a supportive friend, mistress, or partner you can easily do option number two! This is also something you can do again and again to perfect how to talk like a lady. Have fun and enjoy girlies.Â
Talk Like A Lady Assignment- Option One
For this assignment, you need a safe space and a mirror. You’re going to start with a small sentence and then build on it. As you build upon the starter sentence you should remember what was talked about in the previous lesson.Â
Picking your starter sentence. Think about one of your more hectic days and then you’re going to describe that day from your inner femme perception. So starting out, think of it as you start out with a small male version and then you build on it. For example, a good starter sentence would be âToday was just one of those daysâ. Then get in your safe zone with your mirror and watch yourself transform throughout your storytelling.Â
Full Example Of How It Might Go.Â
âToday was just one of those days, felt like it was never-endingâÂ
âFor starters, my new white blouse was done in by noon thanks to a slight spill with the new dark roast I was trying out. Ended up burning my tongue a little, causing the spill. So I had to go quickly change, luckily I found another white shirt so I didnât completely throw off my lookâŠetcâ
Keep it going until you have spoken every little detail that comes to mind. Notice how you might talk with your hands, and what details made you excited to share. Then you can repeat this focusing more on pacing, and pronunciation on the more key details. Change up your tone during parts of your story to show your emotions with your words.
A bonus tip is this can be really fun to do while you are testing out applying make-up. Since you are already in the femme mindset this will greatly enhance the experience.Â
Talk Like A Lady Assignment- Option Two
Option two is exactly the same as option one, except this encourages you to have a practice this femme talk with someone else. This can be your partner, or mistress, or even just a supportive friend that doesnât mind you doing a little rambling. Sit down and tell them about your day.Â
Donât hold back adding in those little details. Especially if you’re talking about clothes or a shopping experience. Gush about what excites you with them. Before starting a conversation, politely ask them to wait until you have signaled your story is over. This is because when you’re sitting down to focus you may occasionally have some pauses while you think over what or how you wish to say something. And itâs best no one interrupts you during that process. So definitely make sure they are aware that you are participating in an exercise.
After completing your story signal you are ready to discuss, listen to their input and feel free to continue a conversation about your story. Before finishing up ask these three questions and consider their input going forward.Â
- Did I sound more feminine?
- Did I do a good job sharing my story with you?
- Would you consider having some girl talk with me again?Â
Another suggestion for if you do option two and happen to be in the third tier of sissy school, include those responses in your journal entry for that week.Â
Have Fun Girls!
Your Sensual Tease Mistress Riley
Mistress Riley,
After listening to your lesson and reading both posts, I did this assignment using option 1. I recorded my story about a recent shopping trip when the salesgirl helped me find a bra & panty set and a new top. I tried to have my voice as feminine as possible when I said how excited I was to tell a stranger that I’m a crossdresser buying clothes for myself. When I played back the recording, I think I did a good job — my voice sounded quite feminine and I used your great tip about tone. That really works.
I truly enjoyed this first lesson and assignment. I can’t wait for the next one.
Hugs & kisses,
cdCindy XOXOXOX
That is wonderful Cindy! I’m so happy to hear that and recording it is an awesome tip for other girlies who are choosing option one. What clever thinking!
As I’m more secretive about my sissy ways, I’ll rather choose the first option.
Doing it while trying to apply make-up is a great option and looks like a lot of fun!
I’ll try to do it and see how I do!
Thank you, Mistress Riley!
I believe you will do just wonderful. Sometimes it takes a couple of times to practice but I think you will be quite pleased with your results. Feel free to let us all know how it goes! <3
I echoed Julie’s ways, I would love to learn better makeup skills and feminine mannerisms.
Thank you for teaching me how, then making me practice, practice, practice. I hope it doesn’t spill over into my daily conversations (blush)
Of course! Practicing is super important, though I can’t promise it won’t spill over a little. *giggles*
I’ve been practicing these phrases trying to sound like Marilyn Monroe
“Willowy waif Wendy went to the window to watch the workers on the warf.
Thru the walls of the dwelling Wendy wept upon hearing
The stud who was impaling and the moans of his wife’s wailing
A pink cage locked Wendy’s bitty clitty
You’d say it was a pitty, but it looked so pretty .”
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(blush)
Penny, I understand your hope, but mine is that it *does* spill over – not overtly, but subtly, as I try to shed unwanted male habits of speech and attitude and improve them with more feminine (but not passive) approaches to be confident without being aggressive.
Definitely chose the first option and find myself struggling to recall all the details of the day. I’m not a very talkative or detail oriented person so definitely forcing me a bit out of my comfort zone to try to do both
I did this using both to practice in front of a mirror
Give you confidence n type 2 when out to dinner
This evening with friends
So I went with option one because I like the bonus tip of applying make up while doing it. These lessons/assignments are very creative and Iâm sitting at the edge of my seat, crossed legs of course, waiting for the next.
I’m so happy to hear you enjoyed it and used the make-up tip. It came to mind cause often when I have a presentation or a big conversation I know I need to have with someone. I will normally practice what I want to say when I’m getting ready in the morning. It’s therapeutic and fun!
I loved this! I did option 1 and hope to follow up with option 2 later with my fiancĂ©, since not only do I want to be more feminine, I want us to be more connected. Being vague is another way of bottling up problems. Doing option 1 with myself showed me how much I can neglect myself. A bad day isnât an emotion. Digging into what happened unraveled how I felt about each choice I made that day. A bad day turned into a day that had frustration, disorientation, guilt, hollowness, unsatisfactory, and disappointment. Instead of âa dayâ it was âduring workâ plus the emotion and details of what happened throughout that day. This exercise is more than just practicing to be feminine, itâs about emotional intelligence, thoughtfulness, reflection, and self care. I hope I can incorporate this exercise into my daily life. Thank you Mistress Riley!
That is terrific, Minerva. You are very inspiring, using your voice training to help process and re-frame your days and your relationship. Thank you for sharing all this!
You are very welcome, and that is wonderful Minerva that you were able to identify all of those emotions as you process your day! It’s so important, and a great way to learn to convey your emotions via conversation.
This has been a really interesting exercise, to try to modulate my voice dynamics and inflections to speak as women do – it has made me attend more keenly to the women around me (and their widely varied speech styles), and to those I hear on the radio/podcasts or shows/movies. Really enlightening. On a similar note, I heard an interview with Louis Anderson (RIP), and it was interesting to hear him talk about creating the voice for Christine Baskets. And I’ve loved listening to the voices of our mistresses on EE and trying to learn from them! Thank you, Ms. Riley!
PS, I did option 1 because there isn’t someone in my daily life that would be able to do option 2 with. Yet, I hope.
Thank you so much for all your kind words, Maxie!
Mistress Riley,
I also used option 1 and dressed up for the part. I recorded myself three times with a similar scenario where I was out to dinner with a friend. By the third time I was speaking softer, almost in more detail. It was nice to see a difference by the third time!
That is wonderful! It’s a super easy exercise that you can do whenever you want! It’s also great when you found you had a frustrating day to just talk it out with yourself.
I took the time to practice in the mirror and with voice memos on my phone after we talked today, Ms Riley. Kept it light and sunny talking about the day, how thrilled I am to have some new classes going on (winks) & how tempted I was by the leftover chinese food when I KNOW I should have a salad instead.
I’m feeling cautious about asking for feedback so directly (like option 2), but I will commit to practicing in person when I go for my next pedicure. Yay for accountability!
It gets easier and easier, I’m excited and happy that you enjoyed giving this a try. Hope the rest of your afternoon was filled with even more fun as we discussed yesterday đ
I went with option one, hadnât been able to do anything other than talk but still really enjoyed it. The most difficult part was trying to dial it back so it didnât turn into a rant. I tend to be very animated when I tell stories, but the tone of my voice can be pretty aggressive. Something I need to work on in general. Overall this was really fun, and Iâm really excited for future lessons!
That is great Cassie. For you, I would say focus on a kinder tone to try to eliminate sounding too aggressive. Also, there is nothing wrong with being animated. Don’t reel that part of you in, that’s your self-expression and it’s very important.